Withering Away is the second main quest in The Blood of Dawnwalker, and it hides a consequence that pays off much later. The way you prepare Esme’s medicine here decides whether Coen’s mother lives through the Blood Mass. Get the recipe wrong and she dies during the Sacred Covenant quest.
Quick answer: To keep Esme alive, prepare the herbal brew with hot water (not boiling, not cold) and three spoonfuls of herbs. Complete the whole quest before you reach the Sacred Covenant.
When Withering Away starts and what’s at stake
The quest begins automatically at Coen’s house in Laslea Glen once you finish the prologue mission, All Good Things. Coen wakes from a nightmare and his father, Pieter, already has a list of chores waiting.
The core mission takes one time segment. Staying with Anca for the optional Latin lesson adds a second segment and opens the side quest Page-Turner. Completing the whole thing rewards 500 XP for dealing with Anca plus 100 XP for administering the herbs.
Note: The failure state is Esme’s death. If you use the wrong water temperature or dosage, or you don’t finish the quest before the Sacred Covenant, she does not survive.
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Find Anca by the river
Walk to Anca’s hut and knock on the door. No one answers. This is where the game introduces Focus Mode, a vision mode that dims the background and highlights interactive objects in white and quest-related ones in gold.
Check the vegetable patch to see that only half of it is watered, then look in the water barrel to find it empty. Those clues point to the river. Follow the path around the corner of the house and downhill until you spot Anca kneeling at the water’s edge.
Tip: Instead of calling out to her right away, keep watching. You get an early look at the unusual markings on Anca’s hands and arms.

Pay Anca and get the herbs
Follow Anca back into her hut. She hands over a sachet of the rarer herbs, a printed recipe sheet, and the instructions you must remember for the brew.
Brew three scoops of this mixture, with water that’s hot, but not quite boiling.
The herbs cost extra because they are rarer than usual. Your payment options do not affect Esme’s fate.
| Payment choice | Outcome |
|---|---|
| Pay 50 denarius | Anca’s full asking price, paid in full. |
| Offer 25 denarius | She accepts begrudgingly if you can’t afford 50. |
| “Sorry – can’t afford it” | She gives the herbs on a promise to pay later. |
The storm choice and the optional Latin lesson
A storm breaks after the deal. Anca offers to wait it out together and pick up Coen’s old Latin lessons. Your reply decides how much time the quest costs.
| Dialogue choice | Effect |
|---|---|
| “Gladly – I’ve missed it too” | Uses 2 time segments and starts the optional Page-Turner quest. |
| “I really have to go” | Uses 1 time segment and sends Coen straight home. |
If you stay for Page-Turner, the Latin reading answers do not change the outcome, but the correct contextual picks are worth knowing. For the Petronius text choose Fear and Lightning. For Catullus (Carmina 7), choose Kisses and Grains of Sand.
During Page-Turner, a tree crashes onto Anca’s herb shed. Enter the building and collect all 11 herb bundles before you check on her. Three are easy to miss behind the door, and advancing the scene early can lock you out of anything left inside.

Anca is injured outside. Help her into the house, wash the cut on her back with a wet cloth first, then apply the balm from the blue jar.
Prepare the brew correctly (the part that saves Esme)
Head back to Coen’s house. Pieter is outside talking with Vladimir, so wait for that to finish before you hand him the herbs. Pieter then tells Coen to prepare the medicine at the stove, and this is the decision that matters.
| Brew choice | Correct selection |
|---|---|
| Water temperature | Hot water (not boiling, not cold) |
| Herb quantity | Three spoonfuls of herbs |
Pieter and Coen then give the brew to Esme, and Coen sings a lullaby to calm her while she drinks. Once she has taken the medicine, Pieter invites Coen into the woods for sword practice, which automatically begins the next quest, Like Father, Like Son. That transition confirms Withering Away is complete.
Why Esme still dies later
The medicine choice does not resolve during this quest. Esme’s fate is decided at the Sacred Covenant, when she drinks the brew you prepared. Using hot water with three spoonfuls of herbs is what keeps her alive through that scene.
If Esme dies later, the cause traces back to two things only. Either the water temperature or dosage was wrong, or the quest was not completed before you reached the Sacred Covenant. Follow Anca’s recipe exactly and finish Withering Away first, and Coen’s mother survives.






